Do People Really Dislike Change?

"People don't like change" is one of the most common explanations for resistance at work. This article explores three questions leaders can ask about choice, trust, and purpose before assuming their team simply dislikes change.

"People don't like change." It's one of the most common explanations we hear whenever a new initiative, policy, or process is met with resistance. But I'm not convinced it is entirely true. Every day, people willingly pursue life's biggest changes. They get married, have children, buy homes, accept promotions, change careers, and start businesses. If people truly disliked change, why would they pursue so much of it?

What makes workplace change feel so different?

As leaders, we have all had to implement changes that were met with little enthusiasm. Employees may not have openly resisted the change, but neither were they embracing it.

Perhaps the difference is not change itself, but how the change is perceived.

Some changes will always be unpopular. But before assuming your employees simply dislike change, ask yourself three questions.

Did my team have a choice?

This does not necessarily mean they had the authority to reject the change. Rather, did they have a voice in how the change would be implemented? Were they asked for input or given opportunities to share concerns and suggest improvements?

Leaders often focus on the destination. Employees experience the journey.

Leaders often focus on the destination. Employees experience the journey.

Most leaders care more about achieving the desired outcome than how people get there. Employees are often willing to support a difficult decision when they feel their experience and expertise helped shape the implementation. They may not choose the destination, but they can often influence the path. Could you have given your employees more ownership in the process while still arriving at the same destination?

Did my team trust the process?

Trust grows when people understand what is changing, what is not changing, and why the decision was made. Leaders do not need to share every conversation behind a decision, but they do need to explain enough that employees understand the reasoning.

When people trust the process, they are more likely to ask questions, offer ideas, and stay engaged even if they would have preferred a different decision. Trust does not eliminate disappointment, but it often reduces resistance.

Did my team understand the purpose?

Purpose goes beyond simply explaining what is changing. It answers why the change matters.

For example, imagine telling your team, "Beginning Monday, everyone must use multi factor authentication because federal regulations changed."

Now compare that with, "Beginning Monday, everyone must use multi factor authentication because new federal requirements are designed to better protect our clients' confidential information.”

The policy is the same. The purpose is much clearer.

Do People Dislike Change or Uncertainty?

The next time you begin leading your team through change, do not simply focus on communicating what is changing. Plan how you will give your people a voice, build understanding, and connect the change to a meaningful purpose.

Perhaps people do not dislike change as much as they dislike uncertainty. When leaders provide choice where they can, build trust through communication, and clearly explain the purpose behind change, it stops feeling like something happening to employees and begins to feel like something they can move through together.

Whether your team is here in Yuma or anywhere across the country, if you want support leading change so people no longer seem to dislike change, I'd love to talk. Schedule a consultation.

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